In the past, there have been more significant differences in the reasons why men cheat and why women cheat, with men cheating more for sexual variety and women cheating more because of relationship dissatisfaction.
But nowadays, that gender gap in infidelity is closing: Men and women cheat for many of the same reasons and at similar rates.
Unfaithfulness in women has become rampant, let us address this. Women, it is time to check yourselves and get your act together.
1.They’re using it to numb or cope with difficult feelings.
Cheating may also indicate there’s something within themselves or the relationship that they’re not dealing with.
Paul compares cheating to turning to alcohol or drugs, in that people might turn to any of these behaviors as a way to run away from their feelings instead of directly addressing them.
2. Misleading friends
Many women have misleading female friends who are quick to give wrong advice that destroys marriages.
Those misleading are either bitter and single or are destroying their own marriages and speak from a place of pain or the desire to make you unfaithful so that they feel OK that you are cheating just like them.
These misleading female friends will tell you “You have needs”, “Live a little”, “Have fun”, “Enjoy a better penis”, they will even buy you condoms but when your marriage fails, they will mock you or leave.
Lady, surround your marriage with the right friends.
3.Sexual curiosity
Women appreciate good sex just like anyone else.Women cheat when they find a man or woman that turns them on.
If anyone tells you men cheat for sex and women cheat for emotion, they’re wrong. Although men are still more likely to cheat for sexual variety, it’s still among the top three reasons women cheat.
4.Revenge
Revenge is common in some bitter women. These women either with proof of their man cheating or the false suspicion of him cheating they go out to revenge with another man or men.
Lady, just because your man lowers his values doesn’t mean you do the same. Dignity is personal. Don’t stoop low for him.
5. The new person made them feel special.
Sometimes people cheat because the new person gave them a new feeling or made them feel like someone else.
Women report that an affair lover makes them feel special, sexy, and adored, and that attention is hard to ignore, no matter what their spouse does at home.
6.Distance
Long-distance relationships or marriages can make a sexual woman frustrated. If she lacks self-control, she can easily look for a nearby man to satisfy her.
The thing about unfaithfulness even when you hide it is that it begins to corrupt the connection you have with your partner, it gives birth to lies, secrets, and emotional distance.
It is not worth it. Be patient and work on bridging the gap and work on ending the physical distance soon.
7. Neglect
Some women feel neglected by their partners, neglect comes emotional detachment, but instead of fixing the issue and building on communication with their husbands, they look for a connection outside and they cheat.
This further destroys their marriage. Lady, what is missing in your marriage will not be found outside. Affairs don’t last.
You can’t be running to the penis of another man each time there are problems in your marriage. It could be that you and your husband are not connecting because you are pushing him away.
8. Low self-esteem
Low self-esteem can create a desire for outside validation, this might be particularly true if the person isn’t receiving validation from their current partner.
people cheat when they’re not taking responsibility for themselves or taking care of their own feelings—when they don’t develop the ability to speak up for themselves in their current relationship.
They’re abandoning themselves in numerous ways and because of that they’re needy for outside attention.
9.A lot of consumption of alcohol.
More women are drinking than ever before, some women have been caught up in the fun of clubbing, partying, and binge drinking.
They can’t handle the alcohol and so though married or taken, they end up waking up in bed with another man. Lady, the best kind of fun is sober fun.
One day you will outgrow this drinking thing, question is when you do, will your marriage still be intact? Will you have lost a good man for drunk sex that you can’t even remember?
10. Online flirting went overboard
Lots of women start cheating emotionally, especially on social media. She starts spending lots of time online chatting with men.
Her man tells her she is obsessed with her phone but she continues. Soon, the chats become sexual and she meets up with the online connection/s. Sex occurs once or multiple times as her marriage/relationship sinks.
Lady, don’t be sucked into chats that will waste you, the attention might be exciting but it leads to nothingness.
